HEALING AND DEALING ARTICLES
The Spiritual Body
Avoiding The Unnecessary Danger of Future Thoughts
"Be here now"... "staying present"... "grounding into body" -- new age catch-
phrases that can leave us going 'Yeah, sure, ok ... so what are we doing after
lunch?' New-ageisms sound too pat nowadays, and we want something more
concrete, some applicable awareness that can help us heal our lives.
Try this one on for size -- we are safe, invulnerably safe, if we stay put in our
current moment, breathing, doing, being... whatever we are doing and being.
There is no danger in the moment! We can' t be hurt if we are in our bodies, fully.
When we jump ahead of ourselves, when we spin future pictures based on
assumptions, judgments, plans, and pictures of various sorts, we are by definition
out of the moment and generating fear, or excitement. It's either "going to be so
good" or "going to be so bad".
When fear is generated by the passing pictures, it is not often processed.
And this is how we set ourselves up for "reversals", experiences that set us back.
By generating more fear that is not then processed, we put ourselves in danger,
without even realizing it. Unprocessed fear and the judgments that accompany it
have a tendency to attract the very experience feared. We can avoid fear
generation by staying as present as possible, refusing to go down the ratholes of
the pretty or scary visions. And of course, when we do feel afraid, it is vital to feel
and organically express the fear, not technique or rationalize it away.
How to return to the moment when I've left it? Just do it. Just come back,
accepting that I left for awhile, and express the fear generated by the dangerous
experience of having left the safety of my fully embodied moment. Excitement
can be expressed too... judging fear or excitement wrong or bad to exist or express
is not healing and dealing. "I release the judgment that my fear is wrong to be."
Verbal, out-loud releasing of judgments is crucial to assisting myself to stay
present. Which, by the way, is not the same as blocking out all thoughts -- it
means having the "loving discipline" to bother noticing what feels like truth to
incorporate into the moment, and what feels like a distraction that pulls me out
of my body. Practicing being able to tell those two types of thoughts apart can
assist in learning to tell the difference.
My fear has been that if I allowed myself to stay completely present, letting
the pictures of future possibilities roll by unexplored, that I would constantly get
blindsided and unprepared for incoming situations. But, what does "prepared"
really mean? Armed to the teeth with expectations of how I am going to handle
the situation that has not yet come to pass? That behaviour only locks the future
into the past. I can't allow magic, epiphany and serendipity into my new
moments if I have already decided how I will respond and act ahead of time.
When I do that, I miss the impact of the new experience and my organic response
How will I make informed decisions without considering all the angles in
advance? Ask for inner guidance and accept that I have the power to KNOW what
to do when the right time comes for acting and responding. Taking full
responsibility for my experiences, including my old imprints of victimization and
perpetration, means accepting and getting comfortable with my ability to
respond. Response-ability generates acceptance, which generates a greater sense
of comfort with myself, which generates an increasing ease with staying present
in my body, which generates trust and safety instead of more fear and danger.
"When the moment for decision comes, the choice will be obvious."
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Peter Cloud Panjoyah, British Columbia, May 2004
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